Showing posts with label RÉSUMÉ VIRTUES AND EULOGY VIRTUES. Show all posts
Showing posts with label RÉSUMÉ VIRTUES AND EULOGY VIRTUES. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

CHARACTER & ACCOMPLISHMENT

Career achievement and inner moral character are ideally in partnership. Both must be nurtured. What was suggested in the last entry called 'résumé virtues and eulogy virtues’ is that we concentrate  sometimes on the first and experience little about moral and spiritual accomplishments that make us truly wonderful people rather than merely successful.
When we explore further the difference between résumé virtues and eulogy virtues, and delve into the treasury of qualities that make for resounding inner character we discover these kinds of assets.
An Inspiring Humility that moves from a candid self-awareness that admits personal shortcomings and moves to a focus upon other people.
A Confrontation with Personal Weakness that admits and addresses a principal fault in order to become strong and mature in temperament and attitude that is winsome to others.
A Life Deeply Rooted with Others intentionally moves away from the notion that a whole life can be managed and enjoyed individualistically or autonomously. This is a person who understands that authentic high-end character requires dependence upon others in order to convincingly overcome egotism, greed, and self-deception.  

Tuesday, December 1, 2015

RÉSUMÉ VIRTUES AND EULOGY VIRTUES


I am struck this morning by a distinction between résumé virtues and eulogy virtues. One has to do with career and the other relates to character. Your résumé virtues are the proficiencies and skills you tout in the marketplace. At your funeral, your family and friends will appreciate your eulogy virtues, your gentleness, loyalty and love. Our systems, educational and cultural, are dedicated to developing career success whereas we intuitively know our inner character qualities are most imperative. We may be better informed about how to enhance our careers than how to build inner character. It is possible to live for external achievement yet be disconnected from life's deepest moral joys and satisfactions. (thanks to New York times columnist David Brooks for the idea)